- Pete Gillespie
- Jun 19, 2020
- 3 min read
In my experience, when I display a drawing or something I've created to someone, either via social media, but more often in person the response to it and therefore, me, tends to fall into a number of defined categories.
Category 1 - Praise.
Category 2 - Envy.
Category 3 - Aww, that's cute.
Category 4 - Scrutiny.
Category 4 - Meh.
Praise - I welcome praise, but I am completely terrible at knowing what to do with it. I post my drawings and paintings on at least 4 different social media platforms, I have hung them in art exhibitions, created a website.....clearly, I'm desperate for more people to see what I do and get as much art out there for others to enjoy as possible.
And yet, positive comments are like mosquito's to me...I tend to bat them away as quickly as possible and then vigorously spray the effected area. It often comes across as being rude and dismissive, such is my derision. I'm sorry, I don't mean it, I'm just very socially awkward and clearly have trust issues. If you've ever said nice things about my stuff I thank you, truly... *psshhh*

Commission painting for a member of a local singing group.
The best compliment anyone could ever give me, and something I will never feel uncomfortable with, is when someone asks me to create something for them. That's an endorsement of the highest order and gives me the warm fuzzies every time.
There is another separate issue when it comes to praise, and an area I've discussed often with creative people ( I don't call them 'creative people' to their face....that'd be really quite unusual. Many of them have regular names like John or Sue.) is seeing any art as being Amazing!!! (multiple exclamation marks as standard) and throw 'likes' at it regardless of it's artistic merit.
This isn't the reserve of the art world - society now feels that 'liking' is the same as acknowledging and it gets my back right up....but for fear of this becoming a rant I shall sidestep.
Disingenuous much?
Envy See; - 'this is soooo good,..... I hate you.'
Wow.
Now, I'm reasonable enough to understand that so much hate speech isn't actual hostility, but even so, 'I don't like you', seemingly because you've spent time and effort on something is a curious reaction. I would imagine it probably speaks more of the person commenting, than a critique on yours truly.
Does this envy run through the same person do you think? 'That's a lovely cup of tea....I hate you', 'Mmm this cake is amazing!....I wish you ill health', 'OMG those cushions!.....DIE, YOU FIEND!
Too much? Possibly.

Aww, that's cute - this is the slightly patronising response from individuals that see my work as, 'something nice'. Walk around any craft stall or art exhibition and you can invariably pick out people who enjoy 'chocolate box' art, predominately traditional to the exclusion of all else. (Chocolate box, is of course a patronsing term, often describing highly accomplished if dull style from masters of their craft. Big up.)
I draw a lot of skulls and monsters and robots, I'm a man-child. You'd be surprised at the number of requests I get for 'nice' work though.
I rarely turn it down but it does raise a chuckle when I think of someone leafing through my zombie collection and drawing the conclusion that this is the guy I want to draw my local church. (true story)
Scrutiny - My fave. I love people who scrutinise. Okay love might be too strong a term, very sexually attracted then. Those that look at work and pick out details, good or bad and reference them. This might be the teacher in me, but if you can back up your criticism, positive or negative, with examples I'm likely to respond.
I want to know why that sells, or why this sucks.
I'm a tender little flower of course, so be constructive in your damning appraisal, but let me know. Horrible cliche though it is, I learn more from scrutiny than 20 likes (5 likes, lets not get carried away here) and a quick 'garjuz'.
Meh - cba tbh
Pete
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